I’ve never been one to exercise with others. I like to run alone. If do hit the gym with a friend we go our separate ways. I need to get in my zone. So when my husband was watching my progress and saw how the weight was coming off and my body was remolding itself to “human” from “blob”, it incented him to get on MyFitnessPal, buy a Garmin watch, and a Garmin Scale. A month later, he’s down 6 pounds and toning up.
To be fair, he wasn’t dealing with more than the Holiday ten pounds. He was never really chubby but his frustration was he was getting a dad body. He always moved about 5 pounds over the holidays, and to be honest, I liked snuggling against him in the winter better than the summer when his body was hard and bonier. But, Tom wasn’t happy, so power to him to join me on the program.
Now, this has its positives and negatives. The positive is that it actually is motivating me more. My competitiveness kicks in and if Tom has days with more steps, more exercise time, and more intensity it drives me crazy. This make me push myself a bit more. For example, today I got myself to find a way to stay on the elliptical for 30 minutes at high intensity and then move to the treadmill with a high incline and faster pace for an hour.
On the other hand, Tom eats into my treadmill time by getting on himself for 60 – 90 minutes about the same time I would. I have to share, which kicks in my childish self that pouts grouchily as I need to work around him. “You could get on the elliptical when he is on the treadmill,” you say. And, you are right. But, that means there is someone distracting me from my zone (which is a big reason why I even hate going to the gym).
I just need to get over it. The best thing is that the two of us are going to be ready for the warm weather when we can go out for bike rides, hikes and runs. Toms keeping an eye out for a day to hike Mt Monadnock. We talked about a hike up Falling Water trail to Lafayette and Haystack then down Bridle Trail, taking pictures of us in the same spots from 25 years ago. I’m looking forward to some morning jogs along the beach together and then jumping into the ocean to cool off. And, the thought of hitting the slopes next winter isn’t causing anxiety but rather joy. In the end, the positives of doing cool stuff together are definitely better than my petulant child alter ego.
BTW – here’s the eclectic playlist that finally got me over my elliptical hump to drive my intensity to 90% and HR to 154 for 30 min. I also hit 10650 steps before lunch today. This (chubby)girl will be road ready in no time!
Rooster – Alice in Chains
Spoonman – Soundgarden
Wherever I May Roam – Metallica
Break On Through To The Other Side – The Doors
Silent Lucidity – Queensryche
Lights – Journey
Rock and Roll Never Forgets – Bob Seger and the Silver Bullet Band
New World Man – Rush
Here By Me – 3 Doors Down
Even Flow – Pearl Jam
Black Hole Sun – Soundgarden
She Talks To Angels – The Black Crowes
Welcome To The Jungle – Guns n Roses
Turn the Page (Live) – Bob Seger and the Silver Bullet Band
Don’t Fear The Repear – Blue Oyster Cult
Don’t Tread On Me – Metallica
Only The Young – Jouney
You Can’t Always Get What You Want – The Rolling Stones
Turn! Turn! Turn! – The Byrds
Black – Pearl Jam
Love Her Madly – The Doors
Burning For You – Blue Oyster Cult
Hard To Handle – The Black Crows
Rockstar – Nickelback (even for the Nickelback haters you need to end on this!)